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Feels like I am getting dragged in office politics


Are there benefits to revisiting past political missteps?How can I deal with colleagues in a new setting skewing numbers for personal gain?Distinguishing between abbrasive managment style and bullying - when is it bullying?How to handle a senior developer diva who seems unaware that his skills are obsolete?How can I prove mental harassment due to mind games and too much manipulation?How to quietly make sure a co-worker avoids a lunch topic, just onceWorkplace conficts - try to resolve or resign?Workplace politics - how to deal?Continue working for a company client after leaving the company?How to handle senior member of my organization who seems to think I'm not very smart after conversations at team lunches






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My technical manager and a Business Development person from my office have differences. They have complained about each other to the senior management. They are indulged in office politics and aiming to knock each other down by some way.
Sometime ago the BD person tried to know the internal working of the team I work in. He wanted to know team members opinion about our manager, to which I denied to provide any details.
Now, my manager asks me not to even talk with the BD person. He is really concerned while he is out of office that the BD person would again approach me or other team members . All these things are happening unofficially. Both of them are talking these things either face to face or over a phone call with me. Neither of them has sent any message or email regarding these communications to me.
What shall I do in such situation?
What if BD person again approaches me? Can I tell him that I have been instructed not to discuss anything with him?
Shall I approach HR? (This would really piss my manager off)










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    My technical manager and a Business Development person from my office have differences. They have complained about each other to the senior management. They are indulged in office politics and aiming to knock each other down by some way.
    Sometime ago the BD person tried to know the internal working of the team I work in. He wanted to know team members opinion about our manager, to which I denied to provide any details.
    Now, my manager asks me not to even talk with the BD person. He is really concerned while he is out of office that the BD person would again approach me or other team members . All these things are happening unofficially. Both of them are talking these things either face to face or over a phone call with me. Neither of them has sent any message or email regarding these communications to me.
    What shall I do in such situation?
    What if BD person again approaches me? Can I tell him that I have been instructed not to discuss anything with him?
    Shall I approach HR? (This would really piss my manager off)










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      My technical manager and a Business Development person from my office have differences. They have complained about each other to the senior management. They are indulged in office politics and aiming to knock each other down by some way.
      Sometime ago the BD person tried to know the internal working of the team I work in. He wanted to know team members opinion about our manager, to which I denied to provide any details.
      Now, my manager asks me not to even talk with the BD person. He is really concerned while he is out of office that the BD person would again approach me or other team members . All these things are happening unofficially. Both of them are talking these things either face to face or over a phone call with me. Neither of them has sent any message or email regarding these communications to me.
      What shall I do in such situation?
      What if BD person again approaches me? Can I tell him that I have been instructed not to discuss anything with him?
      Shall I approach HR? (This would really piss my manager off)










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      My technical manager and a Business Development person from my office have differences. They have complained about each other to the senior management. They are indulged in office politics and aiming to knock each other down by some way.
      Sometime ago the BD person tried to know the internal working of the team I work in. He wanted to know team members opinion about our manager, to which I denied to provide any details.
      Now, my manager asks me not to even talk with the BD person. He is really concerned while he is out of office that the BD person would again approach me or other team members . All these things are happening unofficially. Both of them are talking these things either face to face or over a phone call with me. Neither of them has sent any message or email regarding these communications to me.
      What shall I do in such situation?
      What if BD person again approaches me? Can I tell him that I have been instructed not to discuss anything with him?
      Shall I approach HR? (This would really piss my manager off)







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