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Annoying/Pushy Co-worker making remarks on my productivity
How do I deal with a high manager that is pushy with deadlines?How to deal with a co-worker who preaches and is head strong?Annoying colleague with self control problemsHow do I confront coworkers about their loud, annoying mechanical keyboardsHow to deal with colleague with annoying behaviours?Helping colleague's annoying behaviorFinding one of my colleagues a bit annoyingColleague has the flu, sniffles and coughs, annoying meColleague promoted immediately after I handed in my noticeLazy, arrogant and unskilled coworker
I have this overachieving coworker and we have the same job functions. My production rate is good, always meet deadlines/goals, and my reviews are always excellent.
This person constantly messages me asking what I am doing at different times of the day or complaining that my rates are slow or my work not as good as theirs.
I have brought it up to another person at work to have another point of view who suggested it was inappropriate to be on my back all the time, criticizing or being pushy about my work. Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
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I have this overachieving coworker and we have the same job functions. My production rate is good, always meet deadlines/goals, and my reviews are always excellent.
This person constantly messages me asking what I am doing at different times of the day or complaining that my rates are slow or my work not as good as theirs.
I have brought it up to another person at work to have another point of view who suggested it was inappropriate to be on my back all the time, criticizing or being pushy about my work. Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
colleagues
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Why don't you try ignoring it. The only person who's assessment you should care about is your boss/manager.
– joeqwerty
18 mins ago
Does your instant message tool allow you to block someone? Use it.
– Joe Strazzere
16 mins ago
Keep a copy of the messages and go to your boss and tell them you are being slowed down by your colleague's continual interruptions.
– HorusKol
8 mins ago
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I have this overachieving coworker and we have the same job functions. My production rate is good, always meet deadlines/goals, and my reviews are always excellent.
This person constantly messages me asking what I am doing at different times of the day or complaining that my rates are slow or my work not as good as theirs.
I have brought it up to another person at work to have another point of view who suggested it was inappropriate to be on my back all the time, criticizing or being pushy about my work. Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
colleagues
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Al Inciarte is a new contributor to this site. Take care in asking for clarification, commenting, and answering.
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I have this overachieving coworker and we have the same job functions. My production rate is good, always meet deadlines/goals, and my reviews are always excellent.
This person constantly messages me asking what I am doing at different times of the day or complaining that my rates are slow or my work not as good as theirs.
I have brought it up to another person at work to have another point of view who suggested it was inappropriate to be on my back all the time, criticizing or being pushy about my work. Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
colleagues
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Why don't you try ignoring it. The only person who's assessment you should care about is your boss/manager.
– joeqwerty
18 mins ago
Does your instant message tool allow you to block someone? Use it.
– Joe Strazzere
16 mins ago
Keep a copy of the messages and go to your boss and tell them you are being slowed down by your colleague's continual interruptions.
– HorusKol
8 mins ago
add a comment |
1
Why don't you try ignoring it. The only person who's assessment you should care about is your boss/manager.
– joeqwerty
18 mins ago
Does your instant message tool allow you to block someone? Use it.
– Joe Strazzere
16 mins ago
Keep a copy of the messages and go to your boss and tell them you are being slowed down by your colleague's continual interruptions.
– HorusKol
8 mins ago
1
1
Why don't you try ignoring it. The only person who's assessment you should care about is your boss/manager.
– joeqwerty
18 mins ago
Why don't you try ignoring it. The only person who's assessment you should care about is your boss/manager.
– joeqwerty
18 mins ago
Does your instant message tool allow you to block someone? Use it.
– Joe Strazzere
16 mins ago
Does your instant message tool allow you to block someone? Use it.
– Joe Strazzere
16 mins ago
Keep a copy of the messages and go to your boss and tell them you are being slowed down by your colleague's continual interruptions.
– HorusKol
8 mins ago
Keep a copy of the messages and go to your boss and tell them you are being slowed down by your colleague's continual interruptions.
– HorusKol
8 mins ago
add a comment |
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Though it sounds as though you are confident you are in good standing, check in with your manager if you have any doubt. Upon further prodding from your coworker, invite them to take up your perceived slipshod work with your manager.
"I'm sorry you feel that way. It is within your rights to address this with [manager name]. Good day."
add a comment |
Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
Given that this person is not your boss, and that your reviews are already excellent and satisfactory, I say that you can safely ignore the provocations and pushy remarks from this coworker.
Keep on with your good work and meeting your deadlines and you will be fine.
Joe suggested in comments that you could block this person if the remarks and messages are too insistent. This could help stop the messages, but one downside is that this person will not be able to reach out to you the moment they actually have a work-related topic to discuss.
If these remarks and messages ever start to affect your productivity, consider documenting them and bringing this up to your boss and telling them that it is harming your productivity.
add a comment |
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Though it sounds as though you are confident you are in good standing, check in with your manager if you have any doubt. Upon further prodding from your coworker, invite them to take up your perceived slipshod work with your manager.
"I'm sorry you feel that way. It is within your rights to address this with [manager name]. Good day."
add a comment |
Though it sounds as though you are confident you are in good standing, check in with your manager if you have any doubt. Upon further prodding from your coworker, invite them to take up your perceived slipshod work with your manager.
"I'm sorry you feel that way. It is within your rights to address this with [manager name]. Good day."
add a comment |
Though it sounds as though you are confident you are in good standing, check in with your manager if you have any doubt. Upon further prodding from your coworker, invite them to take up your perceived slipshod work with your manager.
"I'm sorry you feel that way. It is within your rights to address this with [manager name]. Good day."
Though it sounds as though you are confident you are in good standing, check in with your manager if you have any doubt. Upon further prodding from your coworker, invite them to take up your perceived slipshod work with your manager.
"I'm sorry you feel that way. It is within your rights to address this with [manager name]. Good day."
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Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
Given that this person is not your boss, and that your reviews are already excellent and satisfactory, I say that you can safely ignore the provocations and pushy remarks from this coworker.
Keep on with your good work and meeting your deadlines and you will be fine.
Joe suggested in comments that you could block this person if the remarks and messages are too insistent. This could help stop the messages, but one downside is that this person will not be able to reach out to you the moment they actually have a work-related topic to discuss.
If these remarks and messages ever start to affect your productivity, consider documenting them and bringing this up to your boss and telling them that it is harming your productivity.
add a comment |
Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
Given that this person is not your boss, and that your reviews are already excellent and satisfactory, I say that you can safely ignore the provocations and pushy remarks from this coworker.
Keep on with your good work and meeting your deadlines and you will be fine.
Joe suggested in comments that you could block this person if the remarks and messages are too insistent. This could help stop the messages, but one downside is that this person will not be able to reach out to you the moment they actually have a work-related topic to discuss.
If these remarks and messages ever start to affect your productivity, consider documenting them and bringing this up to your boss and telling them that it is harming your productivity.
add a comment |
Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
Given that this person is not your boss, and that your reviews are already excellent and satisfactory, I say that you can safely ignore the provocations and pushy remarks from this coworker.
Keep on with your good work and meeting your deadlines and you will be fine.
Joe suggested in comments that you could block this person if the remarks and messages are too insistent. This could help stop the messages, but one downside is that this person will not be able to reach out to you the moment they actually have a work-related topic to discuss.
If these remarks and messages ever start to affect your productivity, consider documenting them and bringing this up to your boss and telling them that it is harming your productivity.
Would appreciate any suggestions as what to with my situation.
Given that this person is not your boss, and that your reviews are already excellent and satisfactory, I say that you can safely ignore the provocations and pushy remarks from this coworker.
Keep on with your good work and meeting your deadlines and you will be fine.
Joe suggested in comments that you could block this person if the remarks and messages are too insistent. This could help stop the messages, but one downside is that this person will not be able to reach out to you the moment they actually have a work-related topic to discuss.
If these remarks and messages ever start to affect your productivity, consider documenting them and bringing this up to your boss and telling them that it is harming your productivity.
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Why don't you try ignoring it. The only person who's assessment you should care about is your boss/manager.
– joeqwerty
18 mins ago
Does your instant message tool allow you to block someone? Use it.
– Joe Strazzere
16 mins ago
Keep a copy of the messages and go to your boss and tell them you are being slowed down by your colleague's continual interruptions.
– HorusKol
8 mins ago